What Guys are Looking for in Gals

If you want to know what the good guys are looking for, then look no further than here. I got some of the things that guys find really captivating in gals.

Let’s begin with the superficial – looks.

Is it really important? Yes, of course, especially during that part when you want to grab his attention and notice you.

But it doesn’t mean you need to go to great lengths just to be extremely attractive. You need not look like someone else or act like a slut. The goal is to catch his fancy, and not scare him away. Highlight your positive physical features, and try to make up for the not-so-positive ones. Besides, did you know that most guys are intimidated by too pretty gals?

Once they notice you physically, they will begin to talk to you and try to get to know you better.

During this time, having a pretty face becomes superseded by having a good head on your shoulders.

I’m not saying you need to have an IQ of 145 or an exhibit at every science fair in campus. You just need to be able to carry a good conversation. Nothing makes guys scrambling towards the nearest exit more than talking to stupid girls or girls that surpass the brainpower of Einstein.

Just stay in the middle. Neither talk about dumb stuff nor calculus – especially on the first date!

If you want to attract only good guys, then be a good gal yourself.

If you smoke, drink, party all night and talk too loudly, what kind of guys do you expect would notice and be interested at you? I’m sure you’re getting the whole idea here.

Try to stay clean. But this does not mean you need to put on a saintly image. When guys see you also got a few flaws that are considerably “normal”, they will feel you’re real and someone who can relate.

However, doing a lot of things your Mom told you not to do in front of guys and everyone else, even now that you’re at the appropriate age, only shows you’re insecure and immature.

Respect from other people is something you earn, and not beg for.

When you exude self-respect, then chances are the guys who’d want to get to know you better got that very same principle. Guys find it a complete turn off when you’re throwing yourself at them. Stay simple and respect yourself – you will stand out in a flattering manner this way.

If you appear promiscuous in terms of your choice of clothing, words or leisure, then I really need not disclose here what guys would only want from you.

And mind you, not all guys would want “that” from you – some of them would, but majority of them wouldn’t even try to be within 50 feet around you.

No guy would be able to resist taking a second glance at girls who have confidence.

If you, by accident, run into a guy along the hallway, do the initiative: smile or say “hello”. Not only will he think you are nice and friendly, but your confidence too will captivate him.

And what are the key to having confidence? Just two things: love yourself and believe in yourself. It’s really that simple, especially if you quit crying over your flaws – because everyone got flaws, anyway Oh, and I said confidence, not pomposity! Just stay sweet, humble, nice and simple – basically what guys are looking for in gals they want to be serious with.